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NEURO LINGUISTIC PROGRAMMING The Study of the Structure of Subjective Experience ‘Neuro Linguistic Programming (N.L-P.) is a refreshing new concept in the study of personal dynamics. Its main difference from the bulk of new age therapies is the fact that it deals specifically with the structure of human processes and experience, rather than the content of e experience. For instance, how often have you been in an argument with one person saying something like: “But don't you see", or "I just want you to get a better picture of this" and the other person keeps replying with: "I just can't seem to grasp it", or "It doesn't feel right. yave As an example, close your eyes one and think of a recent experience, one that is easy to remember. Some of just you will recall it as a picture of the eof event, others of you will recall zeps how you felt about it and there is a third group, those people who have ,or the sometimes annoying, sometimes lifesaving ability “to remember exactly what was said and who said what and in what order in a conversation even years ago (or maybe a sort of running commentary of the event), who remember it auditorially. One of the easiest ways to tell which Representational System a person is using is to listen to the words they use to describe their experience, specifically the predicates (verbs, adverbs and adjectives). There are other ways to tell but I'll only deal with these for now. It was developed in the late '70s by two Americans, Richard Bandler and John Grinder, who together decided to investigate the how of some therapists’ remarkable successes, while other therapists could do basically the same things but not get the results. For this they chose Milton Erickson, Fritz Perls and Virginia Satir primarily, as they were getting incredible results. Their first radical departure from orthodox psychology was with this original attitude - who ever heard of studying people who are good at something? Like allopathic medicine today, modern psychology deals almost solely with problems. Richard and John decided this was a bit like trying to build a better car by researching the wrecks that didn't make it ina